养老院是现代社会才衍生出的产物,其中各种各样的服务,让老人有更好的生活质量。现代社会几乎没有子女愿意和父母住在一起,也基本没有时间照顾父母。养老院极大的改善了现代社会老年人的生活问题。然而身处养老院的真正体会,子女们可能跟本不知道。
Nursing homes are the products of modern society, and various
services have been used to improve the quality of life for the elderly.
Few children in modern society are willing to live with their parents
and have little time to take care of their parents. The nursing home has
greatly improved the life of the elderly in modern society. However, in
the nursing home, the children may not know.
央视著名主持人赵忠祥曾聊到养老院的问题,他说现在社会上有很多老人愿意去养老院生活,那只是他们可爱的表现,是为子女做出的最后的牺牲,不愿意再拖累子女,只想自己去一个地方静静地养老。1942年出生的赵忠祥今年已经75岁,已经可以算是一名老人了,在这个问题上他考虑的更真实。子女们都只看到养老院有服务周到的护工,有绿色清新的草坪,有年岁相近的院友。然而老人们经历几十年风雨,他们真正在乎的已经不是这些外物了,而是心理上的感情。赵忠祥说“少不离家是废人,老不离家是贵人”,当一个人迟暮之年,已经不需要名利财富来满足自己,唯一能满足他们的,只有家里这些相处了几十年的人和物给他的归属感。
The famous CCTV host zhao zhongxiang was talking about the problem
of the nursing home, he said now the society has a lot of the old man is
willing to go to a nursing home life, it's just their lovely
performance, is to make the final sacrifice for their children, did not
want to drag on children, wanted to go to a place quietly pension. Zhao
zhongxiang, who was born in 1942, is already 75 years old and can be
considered an old man. He is more realistic about this problem. The
children only saw the well-serviced nurse in the nursing home, the green
and clean lawn, and the aged relatives. However, the old people have
been through the wind and rain for decades, and what they really care
about is not the outer things, but the emotional feelings. Zhao4 zhong
xiang2 said, "not away from home is a cripple, less old not away from
home is noble", when a man later, already do not need to meet their
wealth, fame and fortune can only meet their, only home these spent
decades of people and objects to his sense of belonging.